The sweet spot between hope and realism

0:00Here we are yes indeed uh what do you want to talk about um I don't know I guess myself and why I'm here and what we're going to do great yeah so why are you here um well as I told you earlier I've had herpes for about a year and a half now and um I think it took that amount of time for it to kind of set in

0:32that it was causing problems and was holding me back and I don't want that to be the case anymore so um I try to find outlets for resolving this and I think this is ideally going to work that's a good attitude to have yeah there's like a sweet spot to this you know for a lot of people they can plunge into a deep Despair and have no hope and

1:04then that actually becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy where they actually don't come out of the hole therein but not because of herpes but because of their perspective around it right so um it sounds like you're at that happy medium point of like okay I get that this isn't you know necessarily A positive awesome thing yet right um but that you are out of a hole enough to see oh yeah

1:36there is this thing called hope there is this thing called possibility and and and what is what is your role in making that happen and and becoming more empowered in your life so that this thing called herpes isn't the thing that's victimizing you I think that's a great way of putting it like I feel like I'm really scared right now and I don't want that to be what's holding

2:08me back and I think if I believe in the possibility of like things is working out that I'm going to be more okay with facing that fa yeah yeah you know what that is what courage awesome thanks for watching now go here for more information