Herpes resilience coaching

(From the privacy of your computer screen.)

Get face-to-face virtual herpes resilience coaching from Adrial, the creator of H Opportunity.

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A 25-minute one-on-one laser coaching experience with Adrial that leads you through the experience of re-framing shame from liability to opportunity. If you are struggling with burdensome thoughts and feelings, this is a powerful way to begin to transform them into inspiration and personal power.

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One (1) 50-minute coaching session per month
3-month commitment
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Two (2) 50-minute coaching sessions per month

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2-month commitment
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Four (4) 50-minute coaching sessions per month.

$110 per session —
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1 month commitment
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I can't thank you enough for meeting with me a few weeks ago and for showing up at the perfect time to catapult me through this stuck place. I found our time incredibly helpful and healing. You reframed some things for me that were so integrating. I also put into practice your disclosure practice and it was so powerful. All of this to say that I had "the talk" and it went more beautifully than I could have ever imagined, ending with him saying "You are completely worth the effort." — From a recent client

Living your Opportunity

Hi, I’m Adrial, creator of the Herpes Opportunity. It is my heartfelt mission to support everyone with herpes with their inner journey of transforming Pain & Suffering into Opportunity & Love. I'm humbled and honored that thousands visit our community H Opp forums every day from all around the world to support others and be supported. I’ve had the honor of coaching hundreds of people through shame resiliency (one-on-one and in group settings) since I became a certified Co-Active Coach (CPCC) in 2011 ... and I am amazed by how self-awareness and self-acceptance can completely shift our perspectives and our lives for the better. (It's like discovering a superpower!) And with practice, we get better and better at living our Opportunity every single day, strengthening that muscle of inner authority.

If you are ready to transform perceived blocks in your life into opportunities to grow, heal and transform, then I'd love to help.

What is herpes resilience coaching?

A coaching relationship is a safe and powerful one-on-one space we create together for awareness, healing, resiliency and exponential growth. Because the coaching relationship is two people (you and me) focused on you with acceptance and curiosity, coaching has the magical effect of amplifying your awareness, which ultimately gives you more choice in your life. (The more you can truly see yourself and your own patterns without judgment, the more you can take conscious action toward becoming who you are.) By us having our nonjudgmental attention on you, feeling what needs to be felt, and consciously shifting outdated thought patterns, your life changes.

If any of the following resonates with you, coaching is for you ...

  • If you are scared to disclose to potential partners and are ready to feel a nervous excitement instead. (Did you know that fear and excitement light up the same parts of your brain? What you experience, then, is all about perspective.)
  • If you are ready to dig deep to transform shame by discovering your authentic identity (and living from there).
  • If you want to tame that self-critical voice in your head to make it your ally instead of your enemy.
  • If you are ready for a deep, trusting, heartfelt romantic relationship, but don't think you're worthy of it.
  • If you are ready to alchemically transform suffering into powerful leverage for healing, happiness and love.
  • If you are ready to move your identity (the way you see yourself) from disempowered to empowered.
  • If you can see on some level that this ultimately isn't really about herpes, but instead it's your opportunity to reach deeper into your own truth, integrity, authenticity and heartfelt power to shine brighter than the shame currently overshadowing you.
“We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey.”

― Kenji Miyazawa

Frequently Asked Questions

If your question isn't answered here, please feel free to reach out directly to ask.

How is coaching different from therapy?

Therapy tends to focus more on the past, coaching on the present/future. Therapy tends to focus on fixing something that is broken (problem-focused); coaching starts from belief that we are all naturally creative, resourceful and whole (strengths-focused). Therapy is a professional-client relationship, coaching is a peer-to-peer relationship with curiosity and awareness as our tools.

And to be clear, coaching isn't better than therapy or vice versa, just different. You may have a therapy relationship that allows you to delve into deep childhood wounds and family dynamics, which allows you to understand your past and how it has contributed to your current patterns. You can use coaching to build your awareness of how these past patterns show up now, work to reframe your perspective, and move forward from a place of groundedness, wholeness, strength and choice.

Clients say:

"Coaching with Adrial helped me heal some of my deepest wounds. First I sought Adrial to help me and my partner navigate a Herpes diagnosis, but we soon began exploring our identities and decade-long relationship in the wake of a traumatic event we experienced together. Our healing — as individuals and as a couple — can largely be attributed to Adrial's incredible capacity for empathy, patience, authenticity, candor, and courage. Adrial is one of those magical human beings who guides you in a journey of self discovery and shares your joy when you emerge triumphant at the end. You can experience this too, if you trust Adrial's process and make an effort to be vulnerable with him. You will grow, learn, and love yourself tenfold, and you will thank Adrial for helping you find yourself again."

Today was pivotal.

I tried to find coaches before for various reasons, and no one ever was able to connect to me and my intention as well as you did. You have a beautiful gift. Thank you for helping me. Today was pivotal and I would even say beautiful.

An opportunity to accept myself.

What your insights have offered me was an opportunity to accept myself, and not base my self-worth on what others think.

No longer "damaged goods."

Today I can honestly tell you that I don't see myself as broken or damaged goods ... those ideas I had about myself have been replaced with self acceptance, love, courage and empathy.

I'm even stronger and more resilient than before.

I thought I would never be the same bubbly, optimistic, happy person that I once was. I thought I was doomed to a lonely, shameful life. But nope, I am an even stronger more resilient individual than I was before ... Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU.

I can feel things inside shifting, changing ... healing.

No more self-sabotage.

I realized, on a completely different level, how much I had been sabotaging myself in relationships.

Finally ready to take this journey.

This was the gift I needed to give to myself ... I finally am ready to take this journey of self-acceptance ... in ways I never have been before.