Attracting the kind of relationship you want

0:00So the kind of of relationship that you're wanting that I imagine I'm gonna I'm going to assume not knowing you very very well but I'm going to assume that the kind of relationship you're are you straight yes okay it's the kind of relationship that you want with a man is the kind of man who will fully be available to you in whatever state you happen to be in if you are sad if you are scared shitless right if you're judging yourself right the kind of man that you want in your life is the kind of man who will be there and totally receive you in that without judgment and just hold you in his strength of love okay you got it that would be awesome the only the only way that you're gonna actually attract that kind of a man because this is reciprocal the only way you're going to actually attract that kind of a man is when you are willing to be okay with exactly your present moment experience and that you're willing to share that vulnerably while loving yourself right there's a difference between sharing something like like not having the herpes ...

1:19... talk uh I have herpes this sucks I'm I'm a dirty diseased horrible human being will you accept this horrible disease human being or yeah so I have something that's kind of scary to share with you and I mean even as I'm talking right now my heart is racing and I'm like scared that you're gonna reject me and it's okay because I accept myself and I just want to let you know that I have herpes and what do you feel about that what do you think right it's this vulnerability that you're willing to be right with yourself by the way regardless of whether they reject you or not are you going to reject you or are you going to accept you okay and in that in that strength of conviction inside yourself even as you are crumbling inside that you can have that strength of conviction of you know what I love myself I'm a stand for love the the kind of man who is a stand for love who will be in that in that space with you will be attracted to your stand for love for yourself that's cool yeah thanks for watching now ...

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