By you enacting your values you are treating yourself like you want to be treated in relationship hi I'm adriel creator of the herpes opportunity which is all about positively shifting your mindset disclosing to potential partners in a way that truly connects you and ultimately finding the love that you want and deserve now you can check out the free e-book linked in the description below about having the talk and now on to the video I hope you enjoy it one of the most cliche but true things around relationship like romantic relationship with other people is that relationship to yourself right it's it's spoken about ad nauseum but when you get that sense of like like that felt body sense of oh this is me respecting myself oh this is me loving myself this is me enacting my my core values as a human being it's like you are enacting like by you enacting your values ...
... you are treating yourself like you want to be treated in a relationship right so it's this it's this hall of mirrors kind of thing you are treating yourself in the same loving and generous and accepting way that you would want him or whoever this future partner happens to be to treat you we have it's almost like a parent-child relationship right you have your inner child and you have like your conscious mind that is like the parent right where you like by by living your life from a place of love and peace and okayness and and working with your mind around the perspectives that you're choosing to hold and the stigma that you're choosing to set aside and the self-acceptance that you're choosing to practice first in your mind and then stepping out into reality of like face to face with another human being and being vulnerable and actually enacting that that courage and that ...
... vulnerability it's like you're you're expanding into like it's love in action which is another cliche thing but like that's what it means it's like it's this overflowing of your own perspective and your own self-love that is then working its way into this courageous act of being that way in front of somebody else that you trust and then eventually like even people you don't trust it is just like hey you know like I'm just me you know that sounded wrong I mean it's not about like opening your heart to strangers on the street that you don't trust but you know what I mean like being yourself unapologetically even if people are gonna be like throwing arrows at me or whatever it's like whatever I know who I am it's not that I just know who I am because I've been journaling about it which is super important and like and and and you know developing these photo negatives in the dark first but then I'm actually starting to open the door to the light of day and actually enacting who I am in the world and it becomes more and more real to the point where you're just like this is who I am and you actually get to the point where it's like and if anyone is going to have a problem with that I have more compassion for them than I if I weren't ...
... in this space I would actually maybe take that personally and then it would send me back into self-defeat right but there comes a point where you're just like they're more often than not you're in that space of just knowing who the [ __ ] you are and and that is being bulletproof not that you wouldn't feel the impact of whatever happening in the outside world someone judging you or whatever you're still open you're still vulnerable to that but it doesn't penetrate all the way down to the core of your self-worth anymore because that core is sacred and you are like a staff that you're planting in the ground I know who I am like you can't convince me otherwise at this point right and it's through these actions and like that disclosure is one of the big ones I mean it's like talk about giving yourself opportunities to fast-track self-acceptance you put yourself into a position of oh my gosh this feels really vulnerable this takes a lot of courage and I'm doing it anyway and you have a few of those under your belt and you're like holy [ __ ] right I hope ...
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