Letting challenges grow you

0:00When you can consume the monster the monster makes you stronger hi I'm adriel creator of the herpes opportunity which is all about positively shifting your mindset disclosing to potential partners in a way that truly connects you and ultimately finding the love that you want and deserve now you can check out the free ebook linked in the description below about having the talk and now onto the video I hope you enjoy it yeah so the the idea here is that you can either be fragile and fragile means oh you know you imagine yourself in a box being shipped and it says fragile on it well don't handle me roughly I could break right you can either be fragile or you could be resilient which is better than fragile because it's like okay I I just broke but I'm getting back up oh I got broke again but I'm getting back up right and then there's anti-fragile which means beat me up that's gonna make me stronger are you kidding me like oh and now you're kicking me while I'm down when you can consume the monster the monster makes you stronger yeah there was actually ...

1:20... a quote I don't know if it's from marcus aurelius but it was one of those stoic thinkers that was like maybe it was socrates and he was like he has this whole socratic questioning right and he was basically like ask the person how would you feel because back in those days this was like I don't know bc so like thousands of years ago um there was a it was a very real thing you could be walking on the streets and people could just grab you and then you become a slave like a literal slave and it happened it happened enough to where it was like a worry for a lot of people and so socrates was like how would you feel if if someone just grabbed you off the street and then like made you a slave the person was like that would be horrible of course and he's like ah but you allow people to steal your mind every day and isn't that way more powerful than your body you know the the restaurant totally with me how dare them do that you're basically hypnotized by the by the anger right like you can you can take these small moments and be like all right this is okay this is my this is my opportunity again going to your values and like patience understanding empathy that you're practicing in those moments those small moments ...

2:47... and it's helpful to put it in that context of like okay I'm I I I flexed my my patient's muscles or I I flexed my understanding muscles right then right you you name it and you're inside yourself so that you know that you like that's where you you build intrinsic value that's where you get out of the game of like I'm I'm hustling to go go go go so that I can find happiness at the end of some rainbow versus I'm building these internal values of mine while I am hustling and moving forward don't get me wrong but that all of the things that you encounter along the path are all opportunities to grow you into a better version of yourself that is the anti-fragile unstoppable like truly unstoppable way of approaching life well I hope you got a lot out of that video and if you did please let me know please like comment and subscribe and keep an eye out for more videos just like this you