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Did me getting herpes happen for a reason?

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The quality of our questions that we ask can create really powerful answers right why me is a very different question than what is this here to teach me hi I'm adriel creator of the herpes opportunity which is all about positively shifting your mindset disclosing to potential partners in a way that truly connects you and ultimately finding the love that you want and deserve now you can check out the free ebook linked in the description below about having the talk and now onto the video I hope you enjoy it some people ask me do you believe everything happens for a reason I don't [ __ ] know what I do know is that as a human being with a brain and a prefrontal cortex it's like I get to make my own meaning that takes us out of the victim mentality and brings us into like the creator of our own life what is this here to teach me right the quality of our questions that we ask can create really powerful answers right why me is a very different question than what is this here to teach me right so if so in ...

... that way yes who knows if this is if some higher power is actually like plopping herpes in our laps to be like what are you gonna do with this but I'm going to choose that it's here to help me grow right it's it's bringing us less out of the superficial and into the into our depths and and being able to actually find those who will resonate with our depth as opposed to oh like our label because we have gone through this process of like being humbled it's bringing us into a deeper understanding of being a [ __ ] human being right like suffering what does the buddha say like suffering is welcome to being human right allow it to bring you deeper and carve you out deeper as opposed to letting like making it squash you this is to actually help you become more resilient and prove how strong and resilient and wonderful you really are I hope you got a lot out of that video and if you did please let me know please like comment and subscribe and keep an eye out for more videos just like this you

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By Adrial Dale, h Opp Creator

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"The quality of the questions we ask can create really powerful answers: 'Why me?' is a very different question from 'What is this here to teach me?'"

People ask me if there is some bigger cosmic reason why they got herpes. Was it to teach them some sort of a lesson? The short answer is: I don't know. But the truly magical thing to consider is that you (as a human being and the sole perceiver of your world from behind your eyes) get to make sense of your own life and everything in it. You. Make. Sense. In essence, you create your own reality by choosing how to perceive it, by choosing the beliefs you hold and how they paint your experience of your life. So what sense are you making? And is it supporting you in where you want to go in your life?

P.S. This video is part of the free "inside coaching" series.

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