Vulnerability as Opportunity

0:00A lot of times we feel like if we're being vulnerable it's like we're putting our self on the line to be rejected when in reality we're actually sharing something that we had kept hidden so that more of us can be seen and then more of us has the potential to be loved hi I'm adriel creator of the herpes opportunity which is all about positively shifting your mindset disclosing to potential partners in a way that truly connects you and ultimately finding the love that you want and deserve now you can check out the free ebook linked in the description below about having the talk and now onto the video I hope you enjoy it the the thing that that kind of if if someone is going to have a problem with with herpes that what that brings to the forefront is just a a sense of how we might be in relationship around other difficulties that might come up right other things that might be uncomfortable to talk about awkward do we sweep it under the rug or do we like nip it in the bud and talk about it like let's let's talk right ...

1:24... it's not saying that like people who you know are a no or you know reject about herpes are like bad people or less self-aware or anything like that it's just that that it might point to something around when push comes to shove like what kind of relationship are we gonna have and that's why like when you when you reach that point where there's the where you are laissez-faire about like not gripping too hard when you're disclosing of like I really want this it's this you're holding both you're like yeah I have a preference here I would like this to happen and that's the vulnerability piece right because you're like I'm putting my heart on the line even though I'm not in love yet or whatever it's like it's starting my heart's starting to open I'm putting it out there and when you can see that for what it is of our like the the dynamic between the two of you is such that the one who's ready for a deep relationship is going to see the vulnerability and not see the herpes if that makes sense he's gonna see that there's so much more to ...

2:52... this wow like this woman just shared her heart with me and I can see her trembling I can see that this is hard for her and yes there's like this little grain of this thing called herpes that has shame around it and okay we can talk about that but wow you had the courage to like share something that was really hard with me I see you wow thank you that's that is a soul turn on you know what I mean yeah and you've probably had that experience yourself in whether it be friendships or past relationships where they're vulnerable with you in some way and it's just like oh my gosh this this changes everything like like you're revealing more to me because through your vulnerability and I get to see that a lot of times we feel like if we're being vulnerable it's like we're putting our self on the line to be rejected when in reality we're actually sharing something that we had kept hidden so that more of us can be seen and then more of us has the potential to be loved but we have it that like no I'm to keep ...

4:13... this to the side because the potential of this part of me being loved is very small so I'm going to set it to the side and not reveal it maybe until much later on you know I hope you got a lot out of that video and if you did please let me know please like comment and subscribe and keep an eye out for more videos just like this you