Flipping the narrative

0:00And you so you flipped the narrative you had the narrative before of I'm a bad person or whatever story goes along with that so I'm not going to disclose versus I'm going to disclose because I am a good person and I am all of these good things and and disclosing means all of these things to me now as opposed to the opposite hi I'm adriel creator of the herpes opportunity which is all about positively shifting your mindset disclosing to potential partners in a way that truly connects you and ultimately finding the love that you want and deserve and you can check out the free ebook linked in the description below about having the talk and now onto the video I hope you enjoy it you're going to come out of this experience whether it just blows over tomorrow or there's you know worst case scenario you're going to come out of it stronger in your moral and ethical and integrity in in the depth of your being from this experience so that that is the gift yeah that is the gift of this that is your opportunity dare I say right where you're like ...

1:18... okay sometimes we do need to get smacked upside the head by life and by our decision sometimes to be like whoa it wakes us up and has us realize the the the agency that we have in our own lives that we're not going to be victims anymore to our own narrative of like oh you know I was drunk or whatever I'm not saying like hey you know you should buck up right but that there's like this this deeper sense of like understanding oh wait I I am the I'm like I'm the creator of my life here right and I don't have I don't have I'm not gonna use excuses anymore and again I'm not picking on you about this this is me this is every human being right of like sometimes it takes us getting smacked upside the head by life to be like wake up you're in the driver's seat here what what actions am I taking in my life and and what kind of a life do I want to lead and this is waking me up to that and sometimes the bad experiences wake us up the most so embracing this as weird as that sounds like embracing like okay my integrity is intact I feel like that's a good thing right it's a good thing that I can I'm intact with my my integrity and this is gonna change me for ...

2:35... the better that's a good thing and embracing that and moving into that with more strength and more fortitude for the next time that you meet someone you're like I'll give you a little a little taste of what is possible that in the future when you go to disclose to someone whether it be a one night stand or you know someone you're gonna marry whatever when you go to disclose to them you might even feel excited that you're disclosing because that means that you trust this woman with your vulnerability that means that you're stepping into being like a true man like a capital m man 2.0 like I'm owning my stuff I'm confident even as I'm sharing something that's vulnerable right I'm being authentic all of these values that you get to live in the world through even disclosing something like herpes yeah great and you so you flipped the narrative you had the narrative before of I'm a bad person or whatever story goes along with that so I'm not going to disclose versus I'm going to disclose because I am a good person and I am all of these good things and disclosing means all of these things to me now as opposed to the opposite and that's where you get to like step into being the creator in your own life and having this be a positive like an overall positive learning experience ...

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