"For a relationship to be 'not right' it only takes one person to recognize that. And if you are the person receiving the 'no' you just haven't realized it yet."
It takes two to tango, and it only takes one to realize when a relationship isn't right. All too often, when we get "rejected" we blame it on herpes and we ultimately blame ourselves (for being less than, unlovable, dirty, unwanted ... by everyone) when in reality it's a one-off experience of one person not seeing the potential in the dynamic that the two of you uniquely have together. That's it.