What is authenticity ... really?

0:00Seeing the ways that I I thought like what I thought authenticity was was like being a live wire being raw just like unfiltered you know what I mean and that's not what authenticity is authenticity is like like bringing through the truth but without exaggerating it and without minimizing it hi I'm adriel creator of the herpes opportunity which is all about positively shifting your mindset disclosing to potential partners in a way that truly connects you and ultimately finding the love that you want and deserve now you can check out the free ebook linked in the description below about having the talk and now onto the video I hope you enjoy it this is a big wake-up call for you to to realign to to your integrity and actually know that that whisper that you hear on your on your shoulder it's like oh yeah I'm gonna pay attention to that and it doesn't mean that ...

1:16... like here's the beautiful part about it when we when we zoom back in and we look at your relationship with this one man right now is that it not all is lost even in this situation whether or not he he did contract herpes from you which is a small chance right let's let's be realistic about that too it could have happened but it's also a very it's a small chance so from from that perspective like you you are reenacting or you are acting on your integrity now you are acting on your integrity in in the conversations you are having with him now you are acting on your integrity when you were having dinner with him and you were authentic and just like yeah I'm I'm genuinely scared about like the results and like that you're willing to have that hard conversation with him instead of sweeping it under the rug and and kind of staying in that same denial place seeing the ways that I I thought like what I thought authenticity was was like being a live wire being raw just like unfiltered you know what I mean and that's not what authenticity is ...

2:46... authenticity is like like bringing through the truth but without exaggerating it and without minimizing it when you are looking for the kind of relationship that you are looking for authentic real you know one of integrity deeply connected you know all those good things it's not like a fly by night one night stand just you know [ __ ] shallow you're not looking for for those things then the the having the herpes talk with potential partners and like we've said before you only have the talk with them once you once you start feeling like you can trust them with your vulnerability right so it's not like you're just going to be willy-nilly having the herpes talk here and there like they they have to prove themselves to like to actually get to the point where you feel like you can share your vulnerability with them so when when you get to that point it becomes a perfect filter right so that if there if there are no to it then there there this this isn't like a one-to-one correlation but most likely like if they're unknown to herpes just as a concept and they're willing to ...

4:18... reject you over it then you're probably not gonna get into a really deep relationship with them anyway well I hope you got a lot out of that video and if you did please let me know please like comment and subscribe and keep an eye out for more videos just like this you