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Integrating our new perspective as someone with herpes

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It's a it is a moment by moment thing when we can choose to to act from our best self that is us acting not from ego but from our hearts from our spirits hi I'm adriel creator of the herpes opportunity which is all about positively shifting your mindset disclosing to potential partners in a way that truly connects you and ultimately finding the love that you want and deserve you can check out the free ebook linked in the description below about having the talk and now onto the video I hope you enjoy it this new perspective is like a little baby newborn right newborns can't like can't fend for themselves out in the world right they need to grow stronger right over time they need to get fed nutritious meals they need to be loved they need to be nurtured right before they can kind of even take their steps on their own right ...

... so these these spaces like this coaching space is like the womb right like we're in this womb you know and we're like we're gestating this new belief that you get to own more and more in your life right um now what's the expectation that you're having is that okay cool so right I'm just gonna bust out of this womb and I'm just gonna go full-fledged into running and then flying right but that's that's not how it works I mean it's not gonna take it doesn't have to take years and years but it's also not something where you go you're deep in shame one day and then the next day you're like I'm completely past it right that's that would be denial if you really are in that kind of deep shame right there is there is work to be done and feelings to be felt notice the thoughts notice the impact that they're having on you oh my god I'm freaking out I'm worrying and actually switch them right so actually have what I call an antidote thought right because you're you're giving yourself poison somewhere along the line you've been fed that herpes means ...

... this I'm this kind of a person blah blah blah all the stories come from that but all of that is poison but you get to feed yourself the antidote it's a moment by moment thing like you can let go of the idea of okay one day I'm gonna completely let go of my ego like one day I have my ego and then the next day I'm not I'm totally done with it okay good it's a it is a moment by moment thing when we can choose to to act from our best self that is us acting not from ego but from our hearts from our spirits if we react and like then we're right back into ego okay well then there's the next moment where am I gonna where am I gonna choose to be from now I'm going back into my heart what does my heart say what does my spirit want what feel what feels right what feels good to me right now it's a moment by moment exploration so you can let go of that story if you want that yeah I mean I guess I'm still trapped in my ego now okay but at some point in the future I'm gonna I'm gonna go for it well right now in this moment what does your heart say right is you doing it right now and you always have that choice ...

... in the moment well I hope you got a lot out of that video and if you did please let me know please like comment and subscribe and keep an eye out for more videos just like this you

This video is part of the free "inside coaching" series.
"It is a moment-by-moment thing, when we can choose to act from our best self. That is us acting not from ego, but from our heart, our spirit."

Developing the opportunity mindset is like raising a newborn baby. It takes time for it to grow, get stronger, and be able to face the world. The expectation of "just getting over" shame in an instant is another aspect of denial. Be patient with yourself as you shed the old victim story and embrace your new story. Your empowered story. Continue building this healthy perspective in your mind and heart. Instead of rushing through and skipping over this experience to get to some better future, see this as a moment-by-moment exploration of your humanity ... right now. This leads to more self-connection and a more holistic and grounded experience of healing.

P.S. This video is part of the free "inside coaching" series.

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