Casual Dating & Hookups with Herpes
Here's a question that comes up constantly: "Can I still have casual sex with herpes?" And I'm not going to give you some watered-down, hedge-every-bet answer. The short version is yes. But the longer version is more interesting, because it gets into the how, the when, and the "is this even what I actually want?"
These threads from the now-sunset Herpes Opportunity forums are some of the most-read conversations in our community's history (one has over 51,000 views). They're honest. They're practical. They don't judge. And they tackle the full spectrum, from "how do I disclose to someone I just met at a bar?" to "I've been casually dating with herpes for two years and here's what I've learned."
Whether you're trying to figure out if casual dating is still on the table for you, or you just want to hear from people who've navigated it, these conversations have you covered.
Herpes Disclosure and Casual Sex
The flagship thread on casual sex with herpes, with over 51,000 views. Adrial kicks it off and the community goes deep on how to navigate hookups with honesty and without shame.
Casual hook ups/ one night stands with herpes
With over 51,000 views, this thread tackles the question everyone's thinking: can you still have casual hookups with herpes? The answers are practical, honest, and empowering.
2 year update - successful dating/casual sex with herpes in NYC
After two years of successful dating and casual sex with herpes in NYC, he comes back to share what worked. A real-world update that's both practical and inspiring.
Casual sex and my first disclosure...
Her first casual disclosure didn't go as planned, but what she learned changed how she approaches every conversation after. The community weighs in with real talk.
How to Have Casual Sex With Herpes???
She asks point-blank: how do you have casual sex with herpes? The community delivers honest, practical answers without judgment.
Casual sex and disclosure
A wide-ranging conversation about when, how, and whether to disclose in casual situations. No black-and-white answers, just real people sharing what's worked for them.
