Welcome, Dear Men listener!
Isn't Melanie great? See below for a compilation of links that will help you explore the topics we discussed on our interview together. Thanks for stopping by!




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Also, check out these helpful links to dive deeper into topics we chatted about:
- Video: "Herpes rejection as a relationship filter"
- Video:"How to Become Stigma Bulletproof"
- Video:"Keeping your partner herpes-free can be super sexy"
- Article:"No one will ever love me (and other BS)"
- Article:"Do I have to go on herpes dating sites?"
- Video: "When to disclose herpes?"
- Video: The herpes talk (Success depends on your perspective)
- Article:"The Judgment Boomerang"
- Video:Herpes facts overview
- For the one-page PDF we mentioned that summarizes all the most important facts & figures at your fingertips, you can view the disclosure handout here.
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- For full access to a treasure trove of uplifting and informative videos, audio and articles, browse all posts.
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Some people say I'm crazy for calling this an opportunity. And I understand. (I probably would feel the same way if I didn't know what I know now.) The shame I carried around about herpes nearly destroyed me; but today, countless others and I are living proof that there's only one real cure to suffering from shame: You get to become a version of yourself who can handle this (and almost anything) with confidence and grace.
Thanks to the herpes wakeup call, I grew as a person. I love my life more than ever. I'm married to a sharp, heartfelt powerful woman and we have an amazing, precocious little boy. I wouldn't change a thing. I'm here to help you realize your own Opportunity. Your best life is coming soon.
In support,
Adrial
